Hey sweetie I know its been a while since I wrote your blog. You had your 14th birthday a few weeks back, a sleepover and the girls awoke to snow. A good night was had by all and I still cant believe my little baby is a true teenager.
You are currently upstairs squirrelled away in your bedroom as normal. I can hear you on the phone to your mates discussing the latest love crisis in your life. It pains me to hear you suffering over a boy at your age. You take everything to heart and seem so desperate to make this boy like you.
I cant tell you enough sweetie you should never let anyone make you beg to be your friend. Never give up your friends (boys or girls) for a boyfriend. Men/boys are different to females and their brains work differently to ours. As you get older you will realise they even tend to carry their brains in their pants!
Don't ever put yourself through heartache you don't need to. If a boy doesn't want to be with you, no amount of begging or talking to him or his mates will change that. All it does is make you feel more worthless.
Don't over analyse everything ( your mother is the master at analysing every word a man says!) believe me you will never understand how a males brain works.
As much as it hurts in the here and now, sometimes you have to walk away to feel better in the long run. Things don't work out for a reason. Every day is a new day of adventures and lessons we have to learn. Some are happy, some are sad. But they are all so you realise what you do and don't want from life.
I can hear you crying now down the phone. sweetie there are so many people who love you dearly. Unfortunately life will break your heart many times more until you find your soul mate.
Hopefully you will look back and realise how although it hurts now it will make you stronger and not allow the older you to get walked over in any aspect of life, be it work, friends or loved ones.
Just remember you are special and deserve nothing less than to be treated so. Don't ever change for anyone (although you could work on your temper and sulky moods!lol!) as all that leads to is a false you. Be true to yourself, believe in your self and everything else will fall into place.
All in all live your life for every second. These teenage years should be carefree and full of dreams for the future and happy moments to look back on.
Love ya
Mum x
